My daughter says I exaggerate when it comes to her. Well baby girl. I'm not. I am very proud of you. But to let everyone know, though I think shes perfect just the way she is. I always have and always will no matter what she does. That's just the way it is. But to let everyone else know. She does have her faults. Her biggest is she worries. She always has. She will find something to worry about if she has nothing at the time. Like when will she have something to worry about. lol. I'm not joking. She has gotten better since Kaiden. I'm very proud of her for that. She is figuring out that its ok to just let it play out. She is figuring out what she should worry bout and what she shouldn't. That's hard for older people to do let alone for a person as young as her. She is learning that its ok not to be perfect. And though I make her sound like she is perfect. When she has come home with that B or lower grade. And I can only think of one time she made a C. I would ask her if she tried her best. She would say yes. And I would tell her as long as you did your best that's all that matters. No one is perfect and you cannot expect yourself to be. I had many talks with her crying letting her know that its ok to make something less than an A. That know matter what she does I will always love her. Just like her brother. I do have both of em on a pedestal. But its one that neither of them have to worry bout falling off of. I know they have their faults, I know they will make their mistakes, (I have tried very hard to make sure I let them know its ok to make mistakes as long as you learn from em.) And I know I will always love them no matter what.
A child's love when they are born is unconditional, and is supposed to be a parents love is unconditional. I have to say that it really is unusual to see a parents love that is unconditional. And I'm very proud to say (or at least I believe and I have proven) that I am one of those rare parents that my love for my child (ren) is unconditional. I haven't been happy with all the decisions she has made, (what parent is) but I never became so angry with her that I wouldn't talk to her or wrote her out of my life. And if she was to commit murder I would still love her unconditionally. And she would still be on top of her pedestal.
Most moms don't have a problem getting pregnant. They can get pregnant at the drop of a hat. Well I was told @ 12 yrs old that I would never have children. At 16 I found out I was pregnant. I had a hard time staying pregnant with her. Then had a little bit of hard time getting her here. So I really do treasure my kids. I do know how much of a gift they are. And when I laid eyes on her for the very 1st time I fell madly, deeply and unconditionally in love with her. I didn't know that a person could love that way or that much.
So no matter what mistakes she makes (over cooking cookies, worrying over the silliest of things, making a C, D, or even an F on a school paper, or any other mistakes she has made or will make) she has been and always will be perfect. I know and I want her to know and to understand that I know she will make mistakes. Big ones and small ones. But she is always perfect. And always my 1st true love. (She knows what that means) Everything I have written about her so far isn't an exaggeration. Just get to know her. You cant help but love her. You will know just how special she is. And if you need her if she can (and she will do everything she can to be there) she will be there for you.
I love you my beautiful baby girl
Saturday, April 11, 2009
Just an update on "My daughter (prt 2)
Posted by Montrena at 8:55 PM
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